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There's no universal answer to this question. It's going to vary heavily depending on all sorts of factors. I can merely offer my own POV. I'd start by considering that you can't rid the world of porn.
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You can still disapprove as a parent, and even forbid, but make sure that educating part is there and treated honestly. As for the comments that porn is 'wrong' and that you as a parent can get in trouble, realize that that is by no means a universally shared opinion, so you may be injecting your own personal opinions a bit too heavily into the education Searching a real sex boy of the equation.
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Discuss the morality or immorality, the practicality or impracticality, and the potential outcomes of his beliefs in a rational and relatively unemotional manner.
Will that embarrass him? But it's a fact of life, not more embarrassing than Lawton prof looking for girl fact that you used to change his diapers or wipe his bottom until he could do it himself.
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The worst I found after that was a Victoria's Secret catalog in his room. I am big on listening to my kids point of view and explaining everything I can to them in an age appropriate way. If you haven't had this kind of relationship with him, it isn't too late!
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You know your child best. In light of how technology has advanced and how smart kids can be with it, parental controls sound like a great option as well. When I dealt with this issue 9 years ago, the parental controls were spotty at aa and my son was writing code that he had figured out in his own so I didn't use that.
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And it takes away some of the miracle of discovery with the partner. If you don't have a good book written for boys about sexuality on hand, it would be a good idea to pick one up. The one I chose last year for my then 11yo is called "It's Perfectly Normal.
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Let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater. Can you give him back some computer access, but with safety built in? I can choose the settings my child needs. A couple of times a week, I sit down at the desktop with my son, and we go on my account no controls!
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My husband and I have come to the conclusion that the only way to deal with porn is to pull its teeth as best we can. When my son has questions about things he sees on Searching a real sex boy computer, we just react with a shoulder shrug and make it clear that yes, scummy people put pictures like that on the internet but the best thing to do is just ignore them and click the little "x" box.Naughty Fotr 92840 Girls
We don't get emotional or emphatic because we don't want to give porn importance. Trivialize it, and the people who put it up.
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